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崇高的理想是什么?
2010-5-2 11:06:00

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        父母和老师从小就教育我们,人生应该要有理想,于是乎,幼小的心灵开始滋长对外部世界的渴望,理想在渴望中不断成长.有人想当科学家,有人想当银行家,有人想当教师,有人想当医生.卑微者以钱财权势为理想.崇高者为了什么什么主义而奋斗终身.我们在树立理想的时候,不分清红皂白就接受心灵之外的追求,让心灵蒙受了过量的理想负荷,错误的理想教育改变了我们人生的轨迹,且以一身之躯背负了那些杂乱无章的、于心无用的人生理想.

        当外求的理想不能成为现实,当物质的理想不能成为信仰,人生开始动摇,精神开始接受炼狱般的折磨,当痛苦的时候,我们往往追求各种混乱的心灵救赎之道,反倒让心灵无法解脱.

        当外求的理想没有破灭,我们的人生会一直沿着外求的理想前进,虽然方向错误,但毕竟也是一个方向,基本能够稳定我们的心境。但是当外求的理想实现的时候,我们会幡然醒悟,一生追求的理想很可能不是我们所需要的东西,那时那刻的“贼入空门”偷不到东西的幻灭感会彻底击穿人性的底线-恐惧。

         对于个体来说,每个人的人生理想都只有一个:那就是克服人性本能的恐惧,接近爱的自由.我在《爱与恐惧》博文中阐述了这样一个人性的基本观点:爱与恐惧是人性的一体两面。我们所有的人生努力,都是在学习和获得一种通向爱的自由之境的手段和形式,无论是钱财还是权位,无论是职业还是知识,等等等等,这些外部的东西是帮助我们克服人性本能恐惧的一种智慧形式.

        如果我们能够非常清楚的知道我们这一生是为了克服恐惧而生,是为了大爱而死,那么我们前进的人生道路就不会迷茫.当我们所有的努力有了方向,那么我们就会如释重负,心灵达到自由之界。

         追求内心爱的圆满,让本能的恐惧无所遁形.只要我们投入时间和精力,我们就能够在有生之年实现幸福,而不至于因为方向的错误,导致一生不幸.

爱与恐惧

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