NO pains,NO gains.(完)
作者:心土芬芳 日期:2010-1-29 21:36:00

NO pains,NO gains.(完)

               ---2001届(3)班的班级管理心得

 

4. 和学生交流太少。

 

我是个不大爱说话的人,如果到了一个陌生的地方,我一般不会主动和人交谈。所以第一年来学校的时候,有些老师就说了“这个新来的小姑娘很老嘛”,其实我是不知道对方是不是学校的老师,不知道该笑呢还是该问好,一看到人就傻了。人家就觉得你冷着张脸。在这里我先向对我有误会的老师道声歉。还有严重的感谢林校长对我的直言不讳以及学校对一个新教师的理解和支持,还有李勤玲老师、我舅舅陈毓林老师,虽然他们现在已经不当班主任了,但我从他们身上学到了很多。还有我的师傅廖继聪老师。借此机会说声:谢谢!

 

其实走进学生心灵最好的时机是初一,那个时候如果能和他们成为朋友,得到他们的信任,在初二的叛逆期会好交流的多。我错过了这个机会,使得有些学生宁可自己一个人在内心挣扎也不愿寻求老师的帮助。其实我觉得现在的学生很可怜,乱七八糟的信息铺天盖地,家长自己都会迷失,却要求他们一心只读圣贤书。要他们不受外界的诱惑,却不告诉他们怎么做。学生有问题不敢和家长老师说,问来问去依然是半懂不懂的同龄人,怎么能不出问题呢?一旦老师和家长结成联盟,学生会觉得被背叛,对我们的引导首先就有抗拒心理了,更加谈不上接不接受了。

 

我的第一届学生今年高三毕业。上次他们打电话邀请我参加他们的毕业酒会,给我感触颇深。有个叫徐夏武的学生,当年成绩很差,好象普高都没考上的,现在在茶山师院旁边开了家电脑出租维修店,生意不错,生活蛮开心的。所以现在想想,能读书的固然好,不能读书的也未必就是世界末日,每个人都有自己的路要走。实在没必要对那些孩子提过高的要求,让他们初中三年都过得不开心,然后我们自己也因为屡屡失望而对教育失去信心,觉得自己的付出没有回报。

 

 

曾经以为,我可以不付出我的感情,仅仅把教书看成一份工作,也不会为学生的漠然而感到难过。

 

可我发现,我错了。

 

既然逃避的结果是日复一日的不开心和年复一年的浪费生命,那么也许付出反而会有意外的惊喜呢。

 

NO pains,NO gains.”风雨过后必有彩虹。

 

  

“师者,传道授业解惑也。”我相信,只要我们教育孩子做人的道理,传授他们学习的方法,解决他们成长路上的疑惑,该上重点的都能上,上不了重点的也会有个健全的人生。我期待着,有一天,每个孩子都能以我们的存在而感到幸福。

 

                      2004.09.15

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